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Wednesday, October 12th 2016

10:40 PM

Gone But Will Never Be Forgotten

       My beloved father in law, Paul Grismer had passed away today, i actually watched his last final breath(while trying to compose myself) before he rested peacefully, which quite an opposite situation with my parents, they both died abruptly, of heart attack, both in 1999, when my mother died in Aug. 1999, i just came from work then, as i was passing a neighbor down the street, he said "Condolence Cleo" , and i was like, condolence what?, and told me,(on our native dialect) oh sorry,you didn't know yet? your mother" , my heart was beating fast..as i rushed quickly to our house and there, i confirmed, My father didn't call me when i was at work so that i go home safely and not disturbed, just like any other ordinary days.  Everyday, i used to commute from home to work , ride bout 3 transportation vehicles, so i kinda understood what my father was thinking when he did not inform me right away. But shortly after 3 mos. (Nov. 1999) there it happened again, this time it was my papa, can you imagine, our hearts were still hurting from the fresh wound and there's the new dagger strike again, that left us shocking to me and my siblings, thinking about it right now is making me recall the pain again, the "why" question is once again resurfaced in my mind but only heaven knows, and when i thought well, i survived, we survived,  became strong after all the pain, trials and struggles,  good things had happened, and that's what i always live on, that in times of troubles, everything is gonna be ok in the end, and if it's not ok, then it's not the end, for i know that God is always with us and will never abandon us. True that you only realize the importance of someone when they are gone,  it's completely different to have no parents anymore,  who is always there to guide and support us.  Cherish your parents while they are still around in this world.  I know, my parents are just up there looking for us, and their memories lives on forever...

      Anyway, today, was thinking that this is it, the final moment with dad and we'll never ever gonna see him again, sitting in the living room, and what i would remember about him, a loving and kind wonderful man,  always being grateful and complementing my food, i know everyone does  😁 but i actually learned the word "sumcious" from him ☺and oh by the way, he complimented about my handwriting too 😊 i must admit it's kinda messed up now,when everything is digital today😁 we were thinking to go camping with mom and dad, didn't happen anymore, i thought we still have plenty of time  😔, but they were able to visit us when we were camping in beautiful but chilly Autumn at Bay City,  most of the Fall campers got their trailers and we were using a tent, i remember dad asked me if i am not cold, if i could only read his mind,i thought he was thinking,"you two are crazy" ☺those little things and more memories that will surely give me a smile in my heart. This moment is truly saddening and heart breaking especially for my husband and family in laws, even we prepared ourselves for this, the only consolation is thinking that he is now resting in peace, feeling pain no more and is now in heaven, that means, more angels up there that are gonna be watching over us...

     Thank you for the 10 years of knowing you, i am so blessed to have you as my dad in law and being part of your wonderful Grismer family..we love you dad, you'll be missed and forever be in our hearts  💙💜💗

 

 

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Tuesday, November 15th 2016 @ 9:18 AM

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Friday, March 3rd 2017 @ 11:16 AM

Posted by KomentarMu:

Rest In Peace, Paul. I hope he has been in heaven :)
Wednesday, April 12th 2017 @ 7:50 AM

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